Welcome to Kinkification

Hello fellow kinkster!  Pixie and I would like to welcome you to our kinky little space in the vast network of online media.  We are excited to have you joining us as we discuss our kink and BDSM journeys and share our collective knowledge about kink and BDSM. 

We are a pair of polyamorous, BDSM, and LGBTQ community members who have spent several years running a kink community playspace, aka a public dungeon.  Together and separately we've hosted over 100 BDSM and kink parties, taught classes, hosted munches, and facilitated discussion groups. We've been in a healthy and happy D/s dynamic for just shy of four years now, with Pixie taking part as the submissive and me, Gem, taking part as the dominant.  Our D/s relationship is built on a foundation of care, trust, respect, enthusiastic consent, and playfully intense, and crazy-good kinky times.

It is our desire that you, our dear reader, find a bit of knowledge and a lot of fun in the information and stories that we are sharing with you. Happy Kinking!!!






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  1. AnonymousJanuary 9, 2021 at 5:43 AM

    I met a Mistress through an online dating app. I have never met her in person. We have been texting back and forth for about a week. Is it normal for me as a potential sub slave male to be asked to sever all other dating prospects and delete all of my social/dating accounts to prove my obedience and loyalty?

    Also, she claims to be an registered nurse but her grammar and spelling contain many errors. I have some reservations that she may not be legitimate.

    Suggestions?

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    1. Gem of KinkificationJanuary 9, 2021 at 8:27 AM

      Healthy D/s relationships are all about consent, negotiations, and healthy and respectful communication. You should not be entering into any situation that does not respect your limits.

      You should be able to establish boundaries and your hard and soft limits. You should be able to have time where you talk freely of any issues with out repercussions.

      Consent and healthy communications are the key to making it work. If your consent is not being respected you should speak up, if after discussing things it continues to be disrespected then it’s time to leave the relationship.

      I hope this helps you make a decision that is informed and good for you.

      Best of luck exploring your best kinky self.

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